You have huge ups and downs in your job search. Right? You’re ridin’ the wave one day, and you’re crumpled on the rocks the next.
Somehow we have to be at our best all the time – in interviews, in networking meetings, at public events. We just have to – game face in place.
A recent discussion among a group of my clients focused on “When I’m at my best, I am _______.” We were exploring what each person felt like when they are at their best.
Here is the value of this exercise: If I can instantly recall what I’m like when I’m at my best, I can assume that mindset at will. It’s something that good salespeople and athletes do all the time.
Here are some of the descriptors these clients used to describe themselves at their best:
High energy
Optimistic
Confident
Out-going
Funny
Interested
Proud of myself
Focused
Creative
Analytical
Relaxed
A trouble-shooter
Empathetic
Friendly/talkative
Free-flowing
None of us are all these things at one moment. But you are probably some of these things (and a few others) when you’re at your best.
Homework: develop a list of the characteristics that describe you at your best. Write that list out; commit to learning it. And finally, assume that mindset as you execute the tasks in your job search.
People are more likely to hire the ‘best’ you!